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My question to you, Doc, is what do you think about my perceived problem? Am I missing something about myself?
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Sex and sexual compatibility are vital parts of a relationship. Should you give up on your ideals?
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Neither will waiting until marriage ensure that this will be your only partner. Just as importantly: At the end of the day, choices have consequences, and nneeds you can decide if those consequences are worth it. In your case, choosing to wait until marriage is going to drastically reduce your dating pool… like, to single digits. Do you have a one-night stand story to share? Were you a virgin until marriage?
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